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A woman took my hand and placed her arm around my waist(she made the first move)and I responded by doing the same and then going one step further by kissed her on the forehead. We have been speaking and flirting ever since. Now here is my question, I want to get to know her better and yet I am semi blocked from going any further ... how do get over this semi block and where should I take her out with the goal of building a friendship first and the usual deeping feelings left to develop at a natural pace. Please reply as quickly as you can.
Dear Questioner,
The best relationships have a strong friendship in their foundation. My advice? Be yourself at all times, but be willing to allow things to develop at a natural pace. My adage always is "if you want to go farther faster, slow down." It's the equivalent of emotional money in the bank! Perhaps your "block" is because you're over-thinking and trying to peak around the corner to see what will happen instead of letting this budding friendship/relationship be where it is today and allowing tomorrow to reveal itself. When creating a relationship we get to choose what we want, not who it's going to be. The "who" has to be a mutual choice. You are a magnet. That which you are seeking is seeking you! Trust that truth, relax on this one, and enjoy the ride!
May you know countless blessings of love and light,
Sandy
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